Reflexive verbs - Easy Learning Grammar Italian

What is a reflexive verb?
Reflexive verbs in English are ones where the subject and object are the same,
and which use reflexive pronouns such as myself, yourself and themselves, for example I’ve hurt myself; Look after yourself!; They’re enjoying themselves.

1 Using reflexive verbs

The basics

There are more reflexive verbs in Italian than in English. The infinitive form of a reflexive verb has –si joined onto it, for example, divertirsi (meaning to enjoy oneself). This is the way reflexive verbs are shown in dictionaries. si is a reflexive pronoun and means himself, herself, itself, themselves and oneself.
Verbs that are reflexive in English, such as to hurt oneself or to enjoy oneself are reflexive in Italian. In addition, many verbs that include get, for example to get up, to get dressed, to get annoyed, to get bored, to get tanned, are reflexive verbs in Italian. Here are some important Italian reflexive verbs:

accomodarsi	to sit down; to take a seat
addormentarsi	to go to sleep
alzarsi	to get up
annoiarsi	to get bored; to be bored
arrabbiarsi	to get angry
chiamarsi	to be called
chiedersi	to wonder
divertirsi	to enjoy oneself; to have fun
farsi male	to hurt oneself
fermarsi	to stop
lavarsi	to wash; to get washed
perdersi	to get lost
pettinarsi	to comb one’s hair
preoccuparsi	to worry
prepararsi	to get ready
ricordarsi	to remember
sbrigarsi	to hurry
svegliarsi	to wake up
vestirsi	to dress; to get dressed

Si accomodi!	Take a seat!
Mi alzo alle sette.	I get up at seven o’clock.
Come ti chiami?	What are you called?
Non vi preoccupate!	Don’t worry!
Sbrigati!	Hurry up!
Ci prepariamo.	We’re getting ready.
Matteo si annoia.	Matteo is getting bored.
Lucia si è fatta male.	Lucia hurt herself.
I bambini si divertono.	The children are enjoying themselves.

Note that in English, you can often add a reflexive pronoun to verbs if you want
to, for example, you can say Don’t worry yourself! or He didn’t hurry himself. Whenever you can do this in English, the Italian equivalent is likely to be a reflexive verb.

Some Italian verbs can be used both as reflexive verbs, and as ordinary verbs
with no reflexive pronoun. If you are talking about getting yourself ready you use prepararsi; if you are talking about gettting the dinner ready you use preparare.

Mi preparo alla maratona.	I’m getting ready for the marathon.
Sto preparando il pranzo.	I’m getting lunch ready.
Mi chiedo cosa stia facendo.	I wonder what he’s doing.
Chiedi a Lidia perché piange.	Ask Lidia why she’s crying.

Note that chiedersi literally means to ask oneself.

Grammar Extra!Some reflexive verbs in Italian add the pronoun ne after the reflexive pronoun. The most important of these verbs is andarsene (meaning to go away, to leave).

Me ne vado.	I’m leaving.
Vattene!	Go away!
Ce ne andiamo.	Let’s be off.
Se ne sono andati.	They’ve left.

The pronouns mi, ti, si, ci and vi become me, te, se, ce and ve when they are followed by another pronoun, such as ne.

2 How to make the present tense of reflexive verbs

First, decide which reflexive pronoun to use. You can see how the reflexive pronouns correspond to the subject pronouns in the following table:

Subject pronoun	Reflexive pronoun	Meaning
(io)	mi	myself
(tu)	ti	yourself
(lui), (lei), (Lei), (loro)	si	himself, herself,itself, yourself, themselves
(noi)	ci	ourselves
(voi)	vi	yourselves

Mi alzo presto.	I get up early.
Mia sorella si veste.	My sister’s getting dressed.
Si lamentano sempre.	They’re always complaining.

The present tense forms of a reflexive verb are just the same as those of an ordinary verb, except for the addition of the reflexive pronoun in front of the verb.

For more information on the Present tense, see The present tenses.

The following table shows the reflexive verb divertirsi in full.

Reflexive forms of divertirsi	Meaning
mi diverto	I’m enjoying myself
ti diverti	you’re enjoying yourself
si diverte	he is enjoying himself she is enjoying herself you are enjoying yourself
ci divertiamo	we’re enjoying ourselves
vi divertite	you’re enjoying yourselves
si divertono	they’re enjoying themselves

3 Where to put reflexive pronouns

The reflexive pronoun usually goes in front of the verb, but there are some exceptions. The pronoun goes in front if the verb is:

an ordinary tense, such as the present simple

Si diverte signora?	Are you enjoying yourself madam?
Mi abituo al lavoro.	I’m getting used to the work.

For more information on the Present simple tense, see The present simple tense.

the polite imperative

Si avvicini, signore.

Come closer, sir.

For more information on the Imperative, see The imperative.

an imperative telling someone NOT to do something

Non vi avvicinate troppo, ragazzi.	Don’t come too close, children.
Non si lamenti, dottore.	Don’t complain, doctor.

The pronoun comes after the verb if it is the tu or voi form of the imperative,
used positively:

Svegliati!	Wake up!
Divertitevi!	Enjoy yourselves!

In the case of the infinitive, used with non to tell someone NOT to do something, the pronoun can either:

go in front of the infinitive

OR

join onto the end of the infinitive

Non ti bruciare! OR	Don’t burn yourself!
Non bruciarti!
Non ti preoccupare! OR	Don’t worry!
Non preoccuparti!

Note that, when telling someone not to do something, you use non with the infinitive for people you call tu.

There are also two options when you use the infinitive of a reflexive verb after
a verb such as want, must, should or can’t. The pronoun can either:

go in front of the main verb

OR
join onto the end of the infinitive

Mi voglio abbronzare. OR	I want to get a tan.
Voglio abbronzarmi.
Ti devi alzare. OR	You must get up.
Devi alzarti.
Vi dovreste preparare. OR	You ought to get ready.
Dovreste prepararvi.
Non mi posso fermare molto. OR	I can’t stop for long.
Non posso fermarmi molto.

In the same way, in continuous tenses, the reflexive pronoun can either:

go in front of the verb stare

OR
join onto the gerund

Ti stai annoiando? OR	Are you getting bored?
Stai annoiandoti?
Si stanno alzando? OR	Are they getting up?
Stanno alzandosi?

Note that the pronoun is always joined onto the gerund when it is not used
in a continuous tense.

Incontrandoci per caso, abbiamo parlato molto.	Meeting by chance, we had a long talk.
Pettinandomi ho trovato un capello bianco.	When I combed my hair I found a white hair.

Key points

Reflexive verbs are commoner in Italian than in English.
English verbs that include get are often translated by an Italian reflexive verb.
Reflexive pronouns usually go in front of the verb.

4 Using reflexive verbs with parts of the body and clothes

In Italian you often talk about actions to do with your body or your clothing using a reflexive verb.

Mi lavo i capelli ogni mattina.	I wash my hair every morning.
Mettiti il cappotto!	Put your coat on!
Si è rotta la gamba.	She’s broken her leg.

Note that you do not use possessive adjectives in this kind of sentence. Instead you use the definite article il, la, i and so on with the noun, and a reflexive verb.

Mi lavo le mani.

I’m washing my hands.

For more information on Articles, see Articles.

5 How to use reflexive verbs in the perfect tense

The English perfect tense, for example, I have burnt myself, and the English simple past, for example I burnt myself yesterday, are both translated by the Italian perfect tense.

For more information about the Perfect tense, see The perfect tense.

The perfect tense of reflexive verbs is always made with the verb essere and the past participle.

Mi sono fatto male.

I’ve hurt myself.

The past participle used in the perfect tense of reflexive verbs has to agree with the subject of the sentence. You change the –o ending of the participle to –a if
the subject is feminine. The masculine plural ending is –i, and the feminine
plural is –e.

Silvia si è alzata tardi stamattina.	Silvia got up late this morning.
Vi siete divertiti, ragazzi?	Did you have a nice time, children?
Le mie sorelle si sono abbronzate.	My sisters have got suntanned.

TipIf you are female always use a feminine adjective when you are talking about yourself, and always make the past participle feminine when you are talking about what you have done.

Mi sono svegliata, mi sono	I woke up, got up and got dressed.
alzata e mi sono vestita.

6 Other uses of reflexive pronouns

ci, vi and si are used to mean each other and one another.

Ci vogliamo molto bene.	We love each other very much.
Si vede che si odiano.	You can see they hate one another.
Vi conoscete?	Do you know each other?

TipRemember that when you is used to mean people in general, it is often translated by si.

Si fa così.	You do it this way.
Non si tocca!	You can’t touch them!
Come si dice “genitori” in inglese?	How do you say “genitori” in English?

Key points

The perfect tense of reflexive verbs is made with essere, and the past participle agrees with the subject of the verb.
Reflexive verbs are used with the definite article to talk about washing your hair, breaking your leg, putting on your coat, and so on.

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